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| Thursday, March 24, 2005 |
| have you ever have an affair? |
yeah, gue pernah. dan tiga dari lima temen gue ngaku mereka pernah have an affair. Affairnya juga beda, ada yang dengan bosnya, pacar temennya ama tetangganya. Well, for me I have to admit that it was with my classmate in senior high school. Hampir semuanya bilang kalo affair always feels good in the beginning and worst in the end.
Recently, temen gue just told me that she is having an affair with someone. First thought that come to my mind that it's very acceptable and logical. Why?
Coz, he or she has not married yet, but both have a girl friend. Tetapi, gue pikir selama belum ada janji di depan penghulu, semuanya bisa berubah dan berganti, rite>?
Faktor kedua, mereka terlalu banyak menghabiskan waktu berdua. Time really can grow the feeling. Semuanya bisa jadi beda bila waktu bicara.
So, ketika dia cerita ke gue. Of course, gue kaget tapi gak shock. Dan gue bila
ng ke dia, I've always have the feeling that you two are gonna have a relationship. Ketika dia nanya kenapa. I just say my intuition. Karena intuisi gue biasanya benar kalo nyangkut orang lain, tapi kalo tentang gue sometimes keobjektivitasan berubah menjadi kesubjektivitasan :P
Satu hal yang gue concern hanya is it just having fun or there's a feeling lying there? when i ask her about it, she can't answer. But, I know her and I guess there's a feeling included.
Hmm, so back to the affair thing. Menurut gue, ada gak ada feeling, having fun, cinlok apapun statusnya, you are playing with fire. You have to be ready and accept all the risks. But, if you think that he's worthy, then go on. You have to fight for your happiness.
In my case, I guess he wasnt worthy. hhhhehehehehe |
posted by gitabanget @ 2:49 AM   |
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